...And I live in a smalltown...

There is something to be said about small town folks - many of them stick together. What's funny about the month that I have been in Bandera, I have met what I feel MOST of the residents. From our kids, parents, the city council, Marshall, Sherriff, Superintendent, business owners and general citizens around town. Today, I got a phone call that I wouldn't have expected. Without getting TOO far into it, I will just say that this person really has a great WANT to help kids. There is only one problem about "wanting to help" and not taking the right channels. If you know anything about small towns, you know that relationships basically play every major role in business. I use to tell my old boss in Tulsa that I would NEVER go by the "good ole boy" philosophy, but I have to say, that I caught myself having to play the game in Sand Springs. Well, it's times ten here in Bandera. Although, there are positives to this philosophy that I'm starting to understand. Honestly, most people that are in at least, THIS small town, are really here to help each other. Just an example, I met someone a couple weeks ago that plays a major role with children in the community. Today, I had a random phone call from a citizen that really had a great idea to help with what our programs are doing and putting it together with helping kids through another avenue. Basically, she wanted to partner with us. She mentioned that this person I met a couple weeks ago didn't like her idea. Well, because I met this person and they were very credible, I went straight to them for advice. I sent an email to my connection and within 10 minutes, they were in my office to explain why this random phone call wouldn't be a good idea. Now, I already had pictured about 10 red flags with this phone call. Meeting with my connection just really sealed the deal. Sadly, we aren't going to be able to help this person. It sounds like a great cause and great way to help kids here in town. It all basically comes down to the plan, approach and delivery of your ideas. If you don't have any connections or relationships in these small towns, you're doomed. I use to think ALL of these philosophies were bogus. Today was a great example of how I believe leaders of a small town can come together to do what is best for the masses.